Resilient Children, Struggling Parents: Mapping American Parenting
There was a time when parenting advice fit on a refrigerator magnet: love them, feed them, don’t let them lick electrical outlets. Now it’s a full-time research project with competing schools of thought, algorithmic judgment, and the constant suspicion that you are already screwing everything up. American parenting today is less a philosophy and more a battlefield—one where children somehow emerge adaptable, witty, digitally fluent, and emotionally articulate while their parents look like sleep-deprived graduate students trapped in an endless group project. The paradox is everywhere. Kids show surprising resilience—navigating complex social worlds, absorbing new technologies faster than adults can pronounce the app names, developing empathy and awareness at earlier ages. Meanwhile, parents report record levels of exhaustion, anxiety, and guilt. The result is a cultural landscape where childhood appears more intentional than ever, and adulthood feels increasingly unprepared. This isn’...